Imagine: once you woke up and suddenly realized that you had the superpower of the movie hero Mel Gibson, just the opposite - you began to hear the true thoughts of men. Now they can’t hide anything from you - even the innermost idea of \u200b\u200bhow an ideal woman should look through the eyes of a man.

You think you can just ask them about it? And who said that you will receive a sincere answer? Speaking aloud about an ideal woman and his dreams, a man always remembers his own image, about stereotypes accepted both in society and in a purely male company. Who of them admits their own weakness for chubby brunette with glasses, when everyone around worships two-meter skinny blondes? Did you see how the men in the group defiantly portray admiration for girls of model appearance from magazine covers? And surely believed their feigned admiration? So others believe and pass this faith on to each other - and a lie repeated a hundred times is indistinguishable from the truth.

Perfect appearance. Is she important?

In fact, only the appearance of an ideal woman is discussed, but never - her character traits, behavior, or such an abstract concept as femininity. This statement is reinforced by the stereotype that for men, the eyes are the main organ of love. Why are they trying to convince us that the man allegedly loves with his eyes? The logic is clear:

• you can measure a waist and hips with a centimeter, but not kindness;
• breast enlargement is much easier than becoming caring and understanding;
• you can use tons of makeup and defiant clothes - it's easier than becoming more feminine;
• on all external attributes, they make a lot of money in the fashion, cosmetics, and fitness industries.

Do you understand the connection? Someone wishing to get rich thoroughly preaches a commercially viable image of an ideal woman through the eyes of men. Poor girls hear about it from everywhere - from magazines, from screens, from friends - and begin to inevitably believe. The rest is clear: any affordable wallet is obtained (not necessarily your own), and bundles of money go into the pockets of cosmetologists, nutritionists, plastic surgeons, fitness centers, and cash desks for clothing and shoe stores. However, even finding herself under tons of silicone, Botox, cosmetics and different, the girl does not approach the ideal by one step. Quite the contrary: seeing such a miracle of the beauty industry, a man realizes that he will not pull this “treasure” financially, and turns his eyes to the applicants more modestly - all the more so since the pretty girl who has spent on herself begins to demand that the applicants return “investment in themselves”.

Are the meanings so clear?

But what women rarely admit to themselves is that they make such sacrifices solely to attract male attention. The fewer worthy men around, the tougher the hidden competition becomes, the more unfair methods are used. Others, having assessed their strength, voluntarily leave the race and establish various feminist movements, preaching a complete rejection of femininity “to spite preoccupied males”. Alas, they both see only a small part of the real picture.

But now you can’t deceive you anymore: here it is, the secret image of the ideal woman. Rather - images, for each man for himself brings into the overall picture a few deeply personal touches. But our business is not hopeless: a dozen common features unite all men's ideas about the ideal, and appearance here is at least part, but part important.

Features for the portrait

Here we note that women traditionally break the image into many small details - hair, eyes, nose, hands, figure. The man sees the whole object of adoration, sometimes not realizing what specifically attracted his attention. In the eyes of men, it is incorrect to divide the woman’s ideal appearance into components, because a lack in one part of the image can easily be compensated for by dignity in another. Ask any of the men about the color of the eyes or the waist size of his companion - units will answer correctly. Ask differently - about the look, about the expression of the eyes, about the overall harmony of the figure - and immediately get the exact detailed answer.

Girls rightly pay a lot of attention, but mistakenly assume that in the eyes of men a woman caring for herself should have something extraordinary on her head. No, the color or the length is not important at all (although some “researchers” genetically substantiate the addiction of men to long-haired blondes). This is a matter of private preferences, but in the general portrait of the ideal woman, only the brilliance, purity, splendor and grooming matter. At the sight of such hair, the subconscious, as it were, says to the man: "This woman is healthy, she is full of strength, takes care of herself and probably will look after me and our children in the same way." By the way, all these "leaning towers" on the head, hairstyles in the style of "crazy mad hairdresser" cause just the opposite effect, because they look unnatural and frightening.

Eyes - no matter what different “psychologists” say about legs and sirloin parts - this is the first thing that men pay attention to. It is through the eyes that they determine whether a woman is interested, whether it is worth starting an acquaintance, and what kind of relationship prospects. A woman can be arbitrarily well-groomed, beautiful and bright, but the dull lifeless eyes of a black-and-white fish shatter all her works on her own appearance into fragments. By the way, did you pay attention - is it such a cold scornful look of the model on the catwalks and covers that they give out as "languid and mysterious"? Someone tell them the truth: lively sparkling eyes with a spark can instantly conquer any heart, and a deep-seated smile lays at the feet of the outwardly "gray mouse" just a pile of men who were killed on the spot.

Tell me, what clever man invented this fashion for lips in the form of two sausages? What intelligence do you need to disfigure yourself in this way? Apparently, this should be called something like: "big sensual lips, hungry for a kiss"? Yes, sometimes there is a prejudice that women with thin lips have a grumpy character, that men like childishly chubby lips - but do not increase them to the same extent? And here's another thing: Have you often seen girls on the streets with a slight, friendly smile? But this simple habit of smiling is exactly what makes a woman attractive. In combination with the same "smiling" eyes, this is already a weapon of mass destruction, and the bearer of a smile will be immediately ranked by the male gender as holy ideals.

The image of an ideal female figure

This is generally one of the worst male secrets. No one aloud admits that the model standards for a woman - in the eyes of men, of course - are as far from the subject of dreams as the image of a two hundred kilogram hamburger lover is far from them. Men, as connoisseurs of beauty, love precisely harmony and femininity - pronounced waist, flexibility, smooth lines, the volume of the chest and hips proportional to the figure. No fifth size will save the owner of a back stoop with reserves of cakes on the sides! For long legs, men feel weak for a simple psychological reason: the longer the legs, the closer the visual center of the figure is to the “same” place that is the main object of their fantasies.

Without an emphasis on feminine dress and a soft, melodic voice, the ideal image of a woman would be incomplete. Moreover, both extremes are equally unacceptable in clothes - both baggy, disfiguring a figure, and vulgar frankness. A real woman should not ostentatiously flaunt herself to all comers, but formless robes devoid of grace will not inspire a man to exploits.

But the voice and smoothness of speech - this is what is capable of instantly depreciating all the effort spent on perfect appearance. Imagine: a man, seeing a fairy-tale fairy, is filled with inspiration, poetry and lyric music sound in his head, it’s already going to the wedding ... and at that moment the “fairy” opens his mouth and demonstrates his knowledge with a rude, smoky (or capricious shrill - emphasize necessary) voice. not only in the literary language, but also in the dialect of market traders. Everything, the spell is broken, the fairy-tale princess turns out to be a cook, and our sad knight continues his wanderings in search of the ideal.

What's inside?

And all because in the eyes of men the ideal woman does not stop on her appearance - about which 90% of girls successfully forget. She can be infinitely beautiful, with perfect figure, lips and hair - but if there is emptiness under this hairstyle, further struggle for male attention is meaningless. Men do not like stupid women, no matter what they say. Every man logically endows his ideal with wisdom, intellect and the ability to think, except for those who are completely insecure.

However, if you read all the encyclopedias of the world and the collected works of Aristotle in ancient Greek - do not try to show this to the chosen one. Imagine the humiliation a man will experience when such an “intellectual” at every opportunity will destroy his self-esteem! No, an ideal woman should be able to use knowledge and logic, but on her part it would be reasonable to look at least a bit, but easier than her man. This is a simple psychology: in the eyes of a man, a woman “too smart” and a wise woman differ just in that the former acts as an aggressor and rival, and the latter calmly refers to the man’s desire to be a leader. After all, it is so flattering to us!

Have you noticed how recently the image of what an ideal wife should be preached is that she supposedly should sit at home, sit back and thoughtlessly spend the capital earned by her husband in three jobs? From a man’s point of view, such a state of affairs is a crime, and to whom it is beneficial, guess for yourself (hint - to marketers creating a consumer society). We will say that the ideal woman is peculiar:

1. Thrift . Attacks of irrational shopping and thoughtless waste without trying to plan finances hint to a man that such a woman needs constant monitoring, that she is infantile, that she cannot be trusted with a credit card and granted freedom of decision;
2. Industriousness. Men do not demand high salaries from women, not at all. But in the eyes of a man, a real woman must be keen on something (at least by work), develop and move somewhere forward, have a goal and strive for it, and not sit in front of the TV, while transferring gossip from one ear to another by phone ;
3. Thrift. If even scrambled eggs seem to you the height of culinary excellence, there’s a chronic mess in the house, and the quality of your man’s clothes is beyond your scope finding a common language with them will be difficult;
4. Dignity. You can include here a taboo for all actions that somehow humiliate both the woman herself and her man - caustic remarks, criticism, envy. A woman with dignity will never tell anyone that her husband is bad - because by this she humiliates herself more than by silence;
5. Fidelity, moreover, fidelity is absolute. A man wants to believe that his companion will not betray him under any circumstances, will not take the side of the enemy - no matter what the man does.

And most importantly - the ideal woman will never try to remake a man in his own way. Accept the man as he is: do not put things in order in the dusty pantry of his worldview, where all things and concepts have long been neatly laid out in shelves.

About deeply personal

“Well, what about sex, what is it with him?” - you ask. Yes, just like with the rest - the best middle ground will be. Men are equally not happy:

• from completely passive, boring and bashful women to whom only serve in the dark under a blanket in a classic pose and without these “perversions”;
• from overly active girls with teenage hypersexuality. It will be very unpleasant for him to deal with a woman who is more active, proactive and relaxed than he is: men are reluctant to share the leading role both in life and behind the closed curtains of the bedroom.

Nearby women believe that a man measures his strength in the numbers of defeated beauties and in abstract "times a night." In fact, the most striking proof of his own masculinity for him will be the reaction of that very single woman. Could he give what she wanted? Did you cope with the crucial task assigned to him? That is why men dream of such women who love not only the process itself, but themselves, their body, partner’s body and know how to enjoy themselves, and not “fulfill the burdensome conjugal duty”.

And now what i can do?

Decide for yourself - is this what you need? Perhaps in life everything is not so bad? Do you need the continuous and sometimes intrusive attention of men? The process of achieving the ideal can be lengthy and difficult. And is it even necessary? Often, having found his own, a man begins to complex, evaluate himself critically and inevitably comes to the conclusion that he himself seems to be unworthy of such happiness! In this case, it will be effective to come up with some kind of cute and safe flaw - start being afraid of mice or some spiders, for example.

Try to love yourself - no one loves someone who does not love himself. Then fall in love with men as they are: awkward, rude, straightforward. And start developing - read books, get a pet, find yourself a hobby, sign up for the gym. This process, turning into a habit, imperceptibly and inevitably improve your outlook on life. Alas, there is no faster way to what an ideal woman should look like through the eyes of a man. Suppose that everything is clear and fixable with appearance, but do not have illusions that you can reliably portray kindness, fidelity or intelligence. One way or another, a man recognizes your deception - they are not so stupid as glossy magazines suggest to you. Starting with yourself, you will inevitably change the world around you, and we wish you good luck!

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The desire to like the opposite sex is absolutely natural, so the girls, arguing on the topic “what men like”, sort out all parts of the body in an attempt to guess and improve what will drive anyone crazy.

website It became interesting that the men themselves would answer this question, and some of the answers surprised us very much.

1. Kindness

Men always notice good deeds, especially if they consider a girl as a candidate for a long relationship, and this confirm scientists. No wonder they say that good returns, and as it turned out, it is returning in the form of increased male attention.

2. The ability to get out of awkward situations

From year to year, men repeat that they are attracted to naturalness both in behavior and in appearance. But it turned out that no less important how do you respond to unforeseen situations. If a girl can charmingly admit that she made a mistake, instead of being angry or making excuses, then this is a sure way to success for the opposite sex.

3. Nails

Many girls are sure that their nails are of no interest to anyone except their manicurist. But, as it turned out, for men the grooming of your hands (they certainly won’t notice the shape of the nails and the color of the varnish) - indicatorby which they determine how carefully the girl takes care of herself.

4. Emotional state

According to men, one of the most unpleasant female types is girls with a negative outlook on the world. Men notice all the troubles in your life that make your mood by no means rosy - unloved work, quarrels with your parents, suffering from unfulfilled dreams. Your image begins to be associated with longing for them, men want to charge positive, so they are fascinated by happy women who know how to enjoy life.

And pretending to be too long will not work either: a man will quickly notice your depression, even if you struggle to seem happier than anyone in the world. Therefore, you need to learn to notice daily the simple joys of life - primarily for yourself.

5. Financial condition

Women wanted equality - women got it, so now not only girls look at the wealth of men, but vice versa. Yes, the topic is very sensitive, but relevant, and rest assured - the man is not out of idle curiosity interested in your income, and for further conclusions. If you earn more than him, it may take him a while to understand whether he is ready to accept this alignment, and if less, to find out if you have vested interests.

6. Self-esteem

Men love to compliment women who, even without them, know what they deserve. And they hate to convince those who are accustomed to denying their own beauty. No more unattractive women in the eyes of men than one that constantly doubts itself.

Confidence in one's own beauty often compensates for any fictitious or actual appearance flaws. Realizing this, you can become the very fatal beauty that men so often dream of.

7. Attitude to other girls

If you looked with an unkind glance at a beauty passing by or allowed yourself a caustic commentary in the direction of a girl you did not like, be sure - the man noticed and interpreted as the presence of a complete set of complexes, as well as an envious and quarrelsome character.

8. Style

Men may not understand the latest fashion trends, but this does not mean that they do not care how the girl is dressed. Your style can be decisive factor to get to know you, because every man has his own idea of \u200b\u200bwhat a dream girl should look like. Some do not dare to approach a girl with bright hair, while others, on the contrary, are repelled by stereotyping, so you should not adapt to everyone - you will not please everyone.

9. Shoes

Yes, men very carefully examine the subject of their interest - from the tips of the nails to the sole of the shoes. No, they do not guess the designer of your shoes and do not try to remember the rules for combining shoes with a bag, but pay attention to how comfortable you feel. When a girl puts on shoes with a huge unstable heel, this causes only irritation and the desire to end the date as soon as possible.

10. Number of friends

For men it is important that the girl has her own life and of real friendswith which she went through fire, water and copper pipes. They are alarmed by the lack of friends or a large number of friends who are constantly changing.

11. Laughter

The desire for no one the idealseems to be in our blood. We strive to achieve it in all areas of our lives: at work, in love, in communication with others. When choosing a beloved, we are looking for the perfect. And it seems that if we achieve the ideal, life will become much simpler and better.
But what is the ideal? Where are they, the criteria for the ideal?

Seems to be exactly representatives the beautiful half of humanity from early childhood strive to be ideal, and very often this is done in order to please a young man. However, how many people - so many opinions. The ideal girl in the eyes of one guy may not look so in the eyes of another. So it turns out that the ideal of a girl is a very subjective concept. One likes a slender girl with signs of thinness, a tall blonde, and the other, for example, at the sight of such a “there is a desire to feed her faster with something.” So everything is relative.

Not worth it dump from the accounts and how old your cavalier is, what kind of education he has and, finally, where he comes from. No wonder they say: "What is good for a German, for a Russian is death ...."
So what is she like?

1. Age

Most likely, this is a girl aged 23 to 27. She has already graduated from a university, and, say, is already working. At this age, the girls are independent and are already able to make important decisions, as they say, approach the problem with a "cold head and sober mind." Relations with younger girls are, of course, possible, but they often do not promise a happy marriage. Such a girl has not yet lost the desire to "take a walk", she can be carried away by new relationships, parties and all kinds of parties. And if she, for example, is also a student ... And if she still wants to get in touch with a girl under 18 years old, then there is a chance to get acquainted with the article "seduction of minors." And this is ALREADY far from the ideal.

2. Education

Of course, just perfect if the girl has a college degree. Only in our time, unfortunately, is it not accessible to everyone. In addition, you can be an intellectual without the cherished crust. The most important thing is to use your knowledge and abilities correctly. According to men, a girl should not be smarter than her chosen one. which means that the perfect girl is smart, but ... wise?

Beloved should be similar to Aries. The same hot, the same passionate, the same temperamental. She is forgiven for obstinacy and rebellion, because the classical representatives of this zodiac sign love to conquer. The harder the fight, the sweeter the victory. If you have an Aries man, try to keep him in a constant tone. Do not let yourself rest on your laurels and be bored. As soon as he realizes that you are under his complete influence, he will immediately lose interest.

Ideal for male Taurus

The classic representatives of the Taurus zodiac sign are ideal practical, calm and decent girl. Her behavior should be worthy, and appearance - attractive. Taurus, unlike Aries, does not welcome recklessness in financial and personal matters. Temperamental and fickle beloved will not only tire the Taurus man, but will cause real rage. It seems that it is impossible to unbalance it, but, having brought Taurus to a certain point, you will get a real volcanic eruption. So, if you decide to live with such a chosen one all your life, hide your emotions. Be friendly and balanced.

Ideal for twin men

For men born under the sign of the zodiac Gemini, the intelligence of the chosen one and wit are important. If they face a choice between a beautiful and smart woman, do not hesitate, they will choose a smart partner. The one with whom you can discuss the latest political and economic news at dinner, talk over a glass of wine on interesting topics. Twins welcome their own opinions. By cheating on your loved one at every word, you will only destroy the charm of communication. But on intelligence, Gemini requirements for the fair sex do not end there. The chosen one should have many talents, be fun and easy to climb. Are you dating a twin? Do not be surprised if he says one fine morning that tomorrow you will fly to Thailand to rest. Representatives of this zodiac sign cannot live without travel. Having found a girlfriend who shares their passion for everything new, they are able to build a long-term relationship.

Ideal for Cancer Men

Representatives of the zodiac sign Cancer prefer emotional and kind girls. They often find attacks of sentimentality. Do not be surprised if a Cancer man with a glass of wine suddenly quotes you a poem. For them, not only the external, but also the spiritual beauty of the woman they love is important. She must be able to understand her beloved, sympathize and empathize with his complaints about this soulless world around. Such qualities should harmoniously coexist with the knowledge of cooking at a level not lower than the level of his mother. Do you meet all the requirements and am ready to check the compatibility of men and women? Believe me, the Cancer man just won’t let you go!

Ideal for men-Lviv

Knowing the general characteristics of the representatives of the zodiac sign Leo, it is easy to understand their requirements for the chosen one. Summarizing them, we can say that the beloved woman must be such that the male Leo proudly showed her in society. Beautiful women, having popularity in a certain circle, are much more likely to win such men than modest women. Finding such a woman, they will put her on a pedestal, they will shower with compliments and flowers. Do you like Leo? Hide away a recipe book and a crochet basket. Get your favorite sexy dress and high-heeled shoes. In the fight for Leo, they will be more useful to you.

Ideal for Maidens

Inquiries from representatives of the zodiac sign Virgo are somewhat more modest than that of the royal Lions. A reasonable and pedantic woman who supports the house in perfect order will suit them. Left dirty dishes after dinner? Even such a trifle can upset the mental state of the classical Virgo. But not only the accuracy and cleanliness of the chosen one will be required in the struggle for a male heart. Beloved should be an interesting conversationalist, be able to forgive their periodic tediousness.

Ideal for Male Libra

Representatives of this zodiac sign appreciate peace of mind, outward appeal and feminine charm. But, of course, not to the extent that I love a beautiful doll that does not have its own opinion and ambitions. The ideal girl for Libra should be able to maintain a harmonious relationship. Act as a pleasant conversationalist, able to listen and hear. Temperamental women, ideal for Aries, quickly put Libra out of balance. From such an intensity of emotions, they will prefer to instantly retire. If you come across Libra, try to be light and balanced, leave strong emotions “locked up”.

Ideal for Scorpio Men

At heart, the representatives of the zodiac sign Scorpio are emotional and vulnerable. Such men at a subconscious level love strong emotions and suffering. They pick their favorite woman to suit themselves: passionate and emotional, with pronounced sexuality and notes of rock. This is just the case when women's eccentricity and unpredictability are only welcome. Having found such a representative of the fair sex, Scorpios will give her their love for many years.

Ideal for Sagittarius men

Adventurers and great adventure lovers prefer women to suit themselves. Bold and gambling. The representative of the zodiac sign Sagittarius will be able to conquer a woman who is able to indulge in love all night long, and in the morning go to conquer the mountains. Such men love to travel. The chosen one should be ready to pack her bags and go on the road at any time. Accompany the man and get real pleasure from the trip, support the ambitions of Sagittarius and admire him. If the beloved woman has these qualities, the rest of Sagittarius will not care.

Ideal for Capricorn men

Ideal for Aquarius men

Representatives of the zodiac sign Aquarius love women who are similar to themselves. Their beloved must be courageous and unpredictable, ready for any impromptu. Yesterday, she inspiredly painted pictures, tomorrow with excitement she will play paintball in the company of friends. The chosen one should be easy to climb, gladly respond to the risky proposals of the Aquarius man. If you can steadfastly survive all the adventures of a loved one and his gatherings in the company of friends, then you can enjoy loving relationships with Aquarius for many years.

Ideal for Pisces Men

The preferences of the representatives of the zodiac sign Pisces are not easy: she is a merciful and disinterested woman, able to withstand their contradictory nature. She must understand the importance of the personal space of the beloved man, which even the spouse cannot encroach on. Feelings of the chosen one should be sincere. The ability to love and empathize is all-consuming. Men-Pisces spend not just years, but a lifetime on finding such a fair sex. And sometimes they are lucky!

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